Sunday, December 28, 2008


We called it Quishmaz celebrations
some members were missing from the pics

what's up in the next month?

NYE party
3 days of Baby's birthday party
POP parade
CNY
cob webs are growing every where in this blog,
christmas has just passed
the xmas tree is still there
no snow nor winter
not much of christmas spirite this year
recession? ns? fatigue? lazyness?
nah, it's just ns making you old and boring

why does my first entry in months sound so emo?
i'm just freaking tired!!


the police trainee attempted a route march on his own and realise that he should leave route march to the green boys with fugly new pixel uniform.. lol

Monday, September 15, 2008

back from China

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

reachingthepointoffallingapart

Friday, August 01, 2008

Love = Fate + Destiny + Companionship + Sex

In Statistics we always talk about percentage..

So at what weightage is each of these factors..

Love (100%) = Fate (10%) + Destiny (10%) + Companionship (30%) + Sex (50%)

True?

Nah. It's about trust and a lot of ingredients.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

the day where the comfortable lifestyle banishes




-car going to be sold, maid going to be send back, no more exp food

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Q: " Do you know that 70% of your blood is made up of liquid from the water u drink?"

A: " Nope, mine has Martell, Otard, Macalren, Hoe Garrden, Tiger, Carlsberg, Heineken, all the different drinks from clubs and a lot of Red Wine which is still running in my blood."

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Items to purchase:

-Samsung Omnia
-I Pod Classic



16th april to 16th june;

bank statement

deposit: $400 withdrawal: $3200



then i told myself: " damn it, i needa stop spending!!"



16th june to 29th june;

deposit: $0 withdrawal: $650



I only bought a polo tee during the month long GSS (Great Singapore Sales)


wtf?!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Behind every successful man, there's a woman.

Behind every not successful man, there's also a woman.

It's your choice which woman you want to be

=)

Friday, May 30, 2008

trust is neither built overnight
nor over a few weeks
nor over a few months
nor over a few years


no matter if you did or did not break any trust
you do not judge how much trust you have created

it is built throughout a life time

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Mother's Day letter

Mummy, who is known as a figure of gentleness, kindness and generousness, never randomly vent her anger on anyone. She was born in the Sim family back in 23/06/1959. The 3rd sister in the family but was the 4th child, as she had an elder brother. Born in a generation where “kampongs” used to be the common people’s dwell. Like many of the people of her age, they would tell you how tough life was back then. She only managed to complete secondary 4 and had to work so that her younger siblings could have a chance to further their studies.

Mummy have always been a family woman, she would do her best and put in her utmost effort in them. Even it meant that she will have lesser sleep, have to sacrifice her time and money and shed blood and tears. She does it all in silence, without any complains and never expect anything in return.

She would always demand to pay whenever we have dinner with my relatives, even though they earn much more than she do. It’s not meant to be a show off or rich wannabe, it is just her responsibility to continue to look after them in all form of ways she could think of. She never once shrieks her responsibility and always abides by it with her heart and soul. She is fully committed to what she is doing and has been doing throughout her life.

Mum agreed and accepted dad’s proposal of marriage. It may be one of her deepest regrets of her life. Dad never brought much joy and good life to Mum. Mum has to start the hawker business together with dad. Being a hawker is no easy life and not really a woman’s desire occupation. She worked hard all her life, bearing her 2 kids in her mind.

Dad just cooks the chicken and the rice, shortly after that he will leave to the market and never really return back to help Mum. Mum will only be with her sole helper during the rush hour of lunch. Can you imagine 2 women working there, and other stalls have 4 workers each. Mum have to stand the whole day, they set off for work from 6.20am and will only return at 8pm.

Even though her job was wearing her out day by day, and she suffered from leg muscular pain. She perseveres on each day as she has not much other choice but to do so. If she does not work hard while my dad is always drinking and doing some f-up stuff, we will be still living in poverty right now. Mummy is a woman who works so hard all her life and does not have much happiness in her life.

Her job scope is really dreadful for me to say out, it hurts me terribly. She has to stand the whole day to chop chicken. Chopping chicken is no small deal, even a guy my size will feel muscular fore arm pain when I do it for just a few round. But mummy is obligated to do it for the whole day, chopping and standing the whole day is really very tiring. She often comes back with pain all over her but she does not complain much.

Many of my friends who know of my family problems respect my Mum and thinks that she is a wonder woman. She has so many problems and the biggest will be our family problem. She always keeps the problems to herself and rarely airs them out. After so many years of facing such problems, she finds no good reasons to talk them out any more.

Dad is a season drinker and smoker; he drinks at least 10 cans a day and smokes 2 packs a day. Even after many years of persuading dad to stop, and after many empty promises made to us, he still carry out his bad habits lavishly. He had gotten many problems after drinking excessive and in a state of getting boozed up. These are the reasons that cause many of the problems in my family; they will be useful to help you understand the problems.

After a tiring day at work, all that mum wishes for when she comes back are warm food and to relax her wore out muscles. What she will do is sit there and eats her dinner quietly, occasionally talking to whoever is eating too. But when dad returns home gorgy and drunk, he will always pick a fight, an easy quarrel with mum. He will start by shouting at her for no apparent reasons and then when she raises her voice after tolerating for a period of time. He will start his verbal abuse on her.

Mummy has never done anything to let our family or me down. The only time when I was glooming mad with her was when I can see she is bias towards Glenn and would blame me for our wrong doings. There was an instance when I shouted at her about it and the repercussion was indeed much undesired. She reprimanded me, punch me in my arm and I had no pocket money for a week. We did not spoke for a week till I apologised to her and helped her carry her bag when I met her at the lift.

Mum and us know of dad’s darkest secret that he “made” it known to us, or there were many ways we found out about it. We abhor what he does outside the family and at times to our family too. Mum will blatantly say them out when she is exasperated, but the problem will worsen. Dad being himself will reverse the cycle and make Mum look like she is in the wrong. When things get really heated up, physical contacts do occur at times.

Though Mum suffered so much, both at work and even at home. She never gave up a single time. She had wanted to attempted suicide in the past but was stopped by my maid or Glenn. They told her that it was not worth it all, for dad is not worth it all. With muscular pains and aches constantly occurring, what she can do is thinking of her two beloved sons when the pain is intensifying.

Mum has no other choice but to give in during arguments with dad, no one else knows how to cook the chicken and without them they will be no business. And they have received a last warning for the stall to be confiscated. Dad is in the wrong lime light again. He will find problems with almost everyone in the canteen. The ironies are that dad is the most hated in the canteen while Mum is the most well liked one. Dad can always be an embarrassment in front of friends and relatives.

I’ve told Mum that how much I wish I have gotten my degree. Then she would not have to work any more and it will be Glenn and my turn to look after her. This problem has been drowning in my mind for a period of time, university fees are expensive and I was afraid Mum could not carry that burden. If a company offers me a bond to study and in return I’m contracted with them for a period of time, I would not mind as I really don’t want to see Mum carry on working so hard each day.

Without Mum, I will not have such good food, good life and everything else good. Yes, I must also admit that dad played a vital role too. But, he is the one that is using up the family reserve for ridiculous and atrocious habits and actions that he had cultivated.

Though I had not said “I Love You” to mummy all these years, but from the bottom of my heart, I really do mean it.

Happy Mother’s Day, Mummy

Friday, May 16, 2008

2 traffic fines in 4 days

well done Davin

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

P plate down

Self-Declared safe driver

zero points deducted
zero fines
zero warning
zero accidents
zero injuries
zero unhappy passenger

=))

Saturday, May 03, 2008

you reap what you sow
rotten seeds from the past sometimes still grow
you'll have to pay extra attention and double your effort for this crop to grow
but sometimes even putting in extra effort is still useless


itriedreallyhardbutnthidoisgoodenoughtellmewhatintheworldmustidobeforeitisenough

Monday, April 28, 2008

Love is going to the bed early

Marriage is going to sleep early

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Ain't this pretty?

Click on the pic to view

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Davin is off to Thailand, the land of the thousand smiles

back on 21st April for an impt date.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

A post to think about


1- Measurement of love

When one says that he/she have done enough for a r/s or even during courtship.
How much is considered enough?
There isn't a measuring stick to gauge or assess what is enough.
If one party put in more effort, does that make him/her the nice one?
Sometimes doing enough or one putting in more effort, does not really matter.
It is about you loving her,
and only wanting her to be happy.

2- The obnoxious rich

Do u get disgusted by the sight of the wealthy when they are so so so stingy and calculative?
You may argue and say,
1) That's how they became rich
2) It's money, every cents count
3) Being frugal and thrifty is good
4) Etc

But
1) Ain't the rich suppose to spend and help this economic get better?
2) Can you bring your wealth to your tomb? (Technically yes, you can but you cant spend it)
3) Why don't u help chip in more when the people around you are trying to put food on the table
4) I can go on till the cows come home

The richer you are and the more stinginess u show, the more disgusting it gets
And yes, don't worry about what people will gossip behind your back, it never ends.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

ok, regarding my previous post.
it was a joke people!
think of me saying it in a joking tone
cmon
davin's not anti marriage..

To prove all critics wrong,
this comment may be good enough

"life is about love and commitments you make so screw anyone who thinks that's a cliché."

Friday, April 11, 2008

Love, is cuddling on the sofa
Marriage, is one sleeping on the sofa

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Stranger: Does your parents fight often?

Little girl: No.

Stranger: But why? Every couples fight.

Little girl: Why would they fight if they really love each other?

Stranger: Taken aback by the answer and remain flabbergasted


Ain't couples,
married or dating,
supposed to continuously find new ways to improve their r/s
instead of fighting (Argument, quarrel or literally fight)?

Why should or would,
couples fight at all,
when they love each other?


Ain't the power of love,
stronger than any financial, in-laws, disagreements, non-acceptance problems?
If it is not,
what exactly is the power of love?

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

As the title of the show may suggest
It is a DEFINITELY must watch show
A MAYBE only if you do not believe in fate or reconciliation
or you are just not a big fan of love movies

WOW!! that coming from Davin.. (DUH...)

This show made me wanna have a daughter even more
She is what you are,
your features,
your blood and DNA.
Someone who will always love you
never separate from you,
because she would never "divorce" you.
And of course,
i want a brainy daughter,
to have smart talks with me

Sunday, April 06, 2008

GO SLOW

Next time when you are driving and feeling sad, sian, angry, bored or even when your happy
Go Slow
i tried it for the first time tonight,
the slowest ride home i had

Benefits
1) It is alway safe to keep within the speed limit
2) lower your chance of getting into trouble with the law
3) Eco Friendly, you let off lesser carbon monoxide because you burn lesser fuel
4) You get to see the surrounding better, probably spotting a nice tree on the way

Disclaimer: If you feel worst after going slow, turn off the sad love songs you are playing, if that do not work, do not blame davin
Direct from the drama series

Just imagine you sent a friend back
walked her to the lift
and realise that both lifts are OOR (Out Of Order).

So you accompany her to walk all the way up
and when you walked down alone,
you thought to yourself
"what if the lifts were working now, cannot be so unlucky right?"
you have a laugh and made your way down.

Boy oh boy
when you reached the ground level
the lifts were really functioning

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Toothache

For there was never yet philosopher
That could endure the toothache patiently,
However they have writ the style of gods
And made a pish at chance and sufferance

A poem written when one had tooth ache

Monday, March 31, 2008

I totally regretted what i did last night
putting another life at risk
probably the most stupid thing i done in years
`beaten 5 red light and .......

u were kind enough to attempt to forgive me
u made it sound nicer and said that
u would forgive me when i decide to forgive myself
`thank you

but the thing is,
i dont know how and when
to forgive myself
`shakes head

i'm sorry
i really am
i will never do it again
`time to wake up davin *slapping myself

Monday, March 24, 2008

ok another super super super busy week..

I've spent like $500 in a week w/o any allowances..

last Sat: SICK SICK SICK.. Glenn's 21st birthday bash, a 2 litre cannon of Johnny Walker, he was dead dead dead drunk by 2.30am.. i will post some pictures of him.. hilarious.. dan and i carried him all the way to the taxi stand with thousand pairs of eyes staring at us.. and we literally dragged him to my house before he puke all over my clothes and bed.. yuck.. mushrooms that were not bitten and the aroma of the alcohol were still so fresh..

Last Sun: Fell ill before i barely sleep 6 hours a day ever since the study break.. bloody problem with sleeping.. Met the Poh, Jo, Dan, Sherm and Glenn at JK.. Had fever so we left earlier.. and yes.. w/o proper sleep, one will never recover from any illness.. A big thank you to the 2 party that bought medicine for me.. =)

Mon to Sat: Sum it up, lots of meet up with the the JK crew and secondary peeps, late night outing at Paris Ris park and East coast park.. Went to the dam.. helped my mum at her stall.. oh yes.. my parents went to Japan so i had the car to myself.. i have not taken public transport in like 3 weeks? damn.. the only public transport are taxis..

Wed: Sophia's birthday celebration with the usuals and adding Mr. Estima not shy at all, Jasper.. had dinner at some international buffet place.. head over to summer breeze at paris ris.. really cool place to chill out.. technically it is just beside the beach so, it will be cool.. and the ambiance is cool too.. 4 bottles of red wine = 3 very high people and an expensive bill.. tons of craps spoken between the drunk ones including many many embarrassing topics.. as usual, andy will throw bottles and glasses all over the place.. but DAMN that bloody place for having low quality wine glasses.. Perlin cut herself when she applied a little force on the glass.. damn damn pissed..

Sun: The Guys came over to witness Man Utd kicking Liverpool's arse left right up down.. 3-0.. could easily be doubled.. great to see jenny recover from his close encounter with "death".. was so so worried.. and congrats to jenny and dan who have decided to quit smoking, the latter had stopped smoking for a week because his gums are starting to fall apart..

After almost completing a bottle of woods, (i don't take medicine, nothing to be proud of, but that's just me) a sweet person bought it for me because i was coughing my lungs out, i am still coughing.. is it the weather or me?

dung.. i'm wore out.. ciao

Saturday, March 15, 2008

been a busy and jammed packed week


Mon: prata house with jean, poh, jo, dan and glenn
Yes, after jean left, the rest of us were interested in girls only.. a lot of crapping, main topic was girls in nyp, which was rather, quite sad..


Tues: Liquid Kitchen with perlin, shi min and hui ping
Been so long seen i last saw the 2 of them.. i learnt a short lesson from our very own nurse why i am colour blind..
There was also a pool session at Pool junction after liquid kitchen


Wed: Mos with jean, daphne, mandy, jack, sam, dawn, dan, bryan, ben and glenn

I had more than 5 peeps telling me:
"Davin, i never had so much fun before!! We must do this again!!"

Guess that will tell how much fun everyone had =)














Just a few of us who went that night


Thur: Prata house with poh, dan and glenn.. 2nd prata house with Andy
Dan goes Woof? and how much is that doggy in the window? ^^ only we 4 would understand.. late late catching up with Andy who Graduated too!! =) =)


Fri: Fixed my car's body kit, went for dinner, caught step up 2 and went to chill at indo chimes.
Lovely place to chill but it is almost filled with Caucasians..


Sat and Sun: i predict that i would get drunk at glenn's massive 21st birthday party where all the my guys will be going to, held at The Arena and i will have family matters to attend on sunday..


To the futiles: Don't bother spotting grammar or spelling mistakes.. half dead blogging this entry.. pick on me another day.. =) getting angry on your own, i have lost enough temper that i dont even think about hating or getting angry now.. =) =) =)

and shut it ben, i am no sugar daddy or god whatever father, u piece of shit..

Saturday, March 08, 2008

class chalet was fun, i like spent the night in a room with 9 girls because ben and bryan was high.. needa be there to look after a friend, drunk ppl are heavy and girls will not be able to carry her.

played games like "who, what and huh?", taboo and handy plus? wicked girls who smack the guys leg like we made fun of them.


-Jean
Nice chatting with you, you are much sweeter than i thought. rmb my words. you deserved better.. =)

-Pat
Thanks for planning!!

-DAphne
humph * clear throat

-Sam
=) "i'm still a good girl" shhhhhhhhh

-Theresa, Rachel and Bani
No chance to beat my leg! i have 6 smileys!

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Your subtleties
They strangle me
I can't explain myself at all.
And all the wants
And all the needs
All I don't want to need at all.

Sunday, March 02, 2008

how do ppl move on from a failed relationship so quickly?
i really wanna know





- Thanks to the very SPECIAL somone who accompanied me when i felt that i could no longer even trust the person who used to be the closest to me.. we went to paris ris park in the middle of the night/morning, yes it was 4am+.. really enjoyed the swing-ing session even though it made me wanna puke.. ok.. i'm lousy.. even th0ugh we were in the west, we experienced and withness partial of the sun rise for the first time together.. =)

Saturday, March 01, 2008

`stop and stare




Leap Year was created to celebrate love
but why once in 4 years?
are they testing the power of fate?
or does love can withstand 4 years of hardship
for a single day of joy?


u tell me

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Simple yet meaningful

Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace...

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

exams will be over in 6 days
liberated from this mind draining conviction called educated
but for only a couple of years

2 years
not a very long time
but before i hit 21
i will definitely be more matured
my career, family, education and friends
are placed as my top priorities

god please bless me to do well
i yearned for success
but i definitely will display more determination to achieve it

Monday, February 25, 2008

one principle in my life ;

forgive those who are still immature

they need attention

let them seek it

for you are far greater than them




i always believe that

"to err is human, but to forgive, it's divine"




I rather be regarded as a magnanimous and benevolent person than one who plays the childish games


The guys would know what i meant, as i have told you, let's just forgive the futile ones alright?

Sunday, February 24, 2008

the last resort of a r/s was used




though i know it is the best for us, i never want to make that decision
and i miss u so

Friday, February 22, 2008

`behind that smile

hides a ...

Thursday, February 21, 2008

lost a beautiful relationship

lost my confidence

lost my motivation to go on

lost the battle

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

the days feel like years when i am alone

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Spread the message cos this is wad they ought and need to know=].

Here goes. A packet of ciggs per daycost around $10. Minimal smoker :2 pack per week : $201 year : $960 50 years : $48,000

Heavy smoker :2 pack per day : $20 1 year : $6720 50 years : $336,000

Okay, im done with conveying the message. Smoke , or no smoke. Your choice, your health, your $$ =]

Monday, February 18, 2008

you are everything good in my life
valentine day?!

nothing happened

no flowers, no presents and no dinner

boring and zero romance davin




planned a nice dinner, no chance to execute

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering